youngest child

hi!

Yahoo! Had an article on how your order affects your love life.

Biologically, I'm the youngest child, but personality I'm the youngest AND middle child. here's why: (I also talk in parentheses)

If you’re a youngest child...
You’re all about fun. The most outgoing of all in the birth order spectrum, youngest children live to have a good time (it may be because your parents were more laid-back by the time you came along). On a typical first date you’ll have your date laughing so hard that water shoots out his or her nose. In fact, “most famous comedians are youngest children,” says Dr. Leman. A partial list of famous examples: Jon Stewart, Jim Carrey, Ellen DeGeneres, Steve Martin and Eddie Murphy. And forget ho-hum plans like dinner and a movie; you love to do the unexpected, often on the spur of the moment. You’re the type to take someone to a party only to whisper, “Let’s get out of here” two minutes later... and then convince your date to take a road trip to Atlantic City or Vegas for the weekend.
Your love challenge: “Babies are the least financially dependable,” (this is me talking: NOT TRUE! I am very careful with my money) warns Dr. Leman (it comes from being, well, taken care of all your life). That means your date may be stuck picking up the tab when your credit card is maxed out (me: which never HAS been and NEVER WILL BE). Also, some youngest children — not you, of course! (me: haha) — use that last-born charm and charisma to be a bit, ahem, manipulative, says Dr. Leman. That breed of baby will leave a date and sneak off to hit golf balls with pals or something similar, leaving the other person wondering what happened.
Best match: Either the oldest child (they serve as a good counterbalance in a parent-child sort of way) or middle child (they value friendships, so they totally understand why you love being the life of the party).


Okay, I've always gone after the oldest child type, but there's a middle child dude I'm interested....hmm

Then, the personality middle child:

If you’re a middle child...
Contrary to their reputation as insecure messes (me:I use to be )(example: Jan Brady), middle kids actually make stable and loyal partners. “One thing you’re not is spoiled,” Dr. Leman says. You probably grew up feeling like you got less attention than your siblings(not from my parents, but from other people), and that drives you to work for every perk — including a happy relationship. Also in the “positives” category: You’re “a compromiser and negotiator,” Dr. Leman notes, so you’ll give your partner plenty of say in everything from how quickly your relationship progresses to where you go on vacation together. And your romance should be free of daily petty squabbles (middles hate conflict. me talking: TRUE!); instead, you try to put others at ease.
Your love challenge: Opening up. Have you ever been told you’re hard to read? (Yes, though my mom says it's not that hard) “Middle children can be very secretive,” (well, I've become more discreet and will not gossip) says Dr. Leman. “They got hammered by the first-born and swindled by the baby, so they keep their cards close to their chests.” You’re also not the best communicator when you’re upset (AMEN!). But if you learn to speak up instead of holding your anger in (um....), you’ll have a more harmonious relationship.
Best match: Youngest child. “Middles aren’t as threatened by last-borns as they are by exacting first-borns,” says Dr. Leman, so the odds are good for open communication.

My parents said I'm a mediator but I don't think so, because if I know there are really big fights (my mom and my sis fought throughout her senior year) I stay out of it. Though, my mom says said it was because I was young (15) I do like it when people are happy. I hate hostility and intenseness. I know I could do that as a career.... never mind....

Well.....there's my personality in an nutshell. I guess for me, Middle or Eldest child works. But I wanted to share that with you.

Today I find out my west civ grade and my religion research paper. I'm praying I've gotten good grades because I studied very hard, especially the research paper.

Okay, I'll let you know how it goes! Faith.