May the 4th be with you!

Hi!

Yes, I am a geek, lolz!!!!! But I am a proud geek.

I have been busy with school lately. Contracts is getting better though it is hard to come up with your own situation but my friend is going to look over my worksheet and hopefully, we're all good!

tonight I work till really late! Ahhhh! It's going to be busy tonight but hopefully, it goes well.

Then tomorrow, I have church, work 11-5, then, POST HIGH!!!!!! Triple wammy!

But this post besides upcoming crud, is something that came up between a friend and I.

My friend and I were just talking and out of nowhere, she told me men don't like it when I'm too strong.

She just had pinch a nerve when she told me that men don't like me.

I have struggled wondering why guys aren't interested in me. Then when she said and told me whatever I was doing was wrong, I became ticked.

It wasn't that I was being strong; I was trying to help her out with a guy she likes. If the opportunity rises, I grab it! Whereas, she wanted either his sister or him suggest it. However, he was being a stubborn ole mule.

I was only doing it for her, not me. I have no interest in him romantically; he's an amazing guy but I look at him as a good friend who we can talk about things like law and sports but nothing romantic.

My roommates as much as I love them, I cannot talk to them about law. I only have a handful of legal studies friends on campus and I only see them during class. So, it's nice to talk to him.

Yes, I can be a little strong and controlling especially with guys. But I was raised to take the opportunity when it came to me; to be independent, smart, and not let sexism and chauvinism get in the way of my life. Heck, they've (my parents) been anti-dating for a long time, which is ironic that I want a boyfriend!

I shouldn't though; guys don't complete me and he won't want to do everything with me. Plus, I don't want to be that "Girlfriend" who always harasses the guy while he's out with friends.

In my opinion, I think it's totally chauvinistic that a woman cannot ask a men out or she breaks some type of stupid moral code.

But the thing is, there is not strategy in dating. Whether it's regular dating or courtships, strategies don't work.

We're still good friends; it was a personality clash.

My Mom is right though; even though there's courtship in Christian dating, the divorce is still as high as with regular marriage.

So in-conclusion, courtship doesn't work either.

So, here's my strategy when it comes to dating; not God's timing, looking or not looking; just pray that I can be a great person whoever my future spouse is and let it just happen.

So, I have no strategy!

Honestly, with my busy term schedules, it'd be unfair to the guy! So, I'm not dating till 30 when I am well traveled, paid off most of loans and done mission trips. Hopefully, when I'm 30, I will meet a guy as serious as me because I keep running into that; not enough serious Christian guys around my age.

It worked for my parents, it can work for me too!

I think the church should chilax on dating and let the person have the freedom to like someone. Of course, no sexy time before marriage, but let the church start teaching that it doesn't really matter who asks who out.

The Bible does not address dating. Remember, even Boaz and Ruth is not a love story! Just a respectful guy marrying a wonderful person!

Alright all, I work tonight and did most of my contracts homework. The best I could anyway. It was fun creating my own situations!

Okay, bye!

Faith.